I understand that sexual attraction is subconscious for many people. Gay men, mostly white and Asian, reject me because of my race and no one admits their sexual racism. DanĪs a queer man of color, being Asian, I feel hurt whenever I am exposed to gay men in New York City, Toronto, or any city where white gay men dominate. I hope everyone has a safe and happy Pride.
I’m taking a week off, so this week’s “Wild Love” is a reprint of a column that was originally published on January 13, 2016.